I have 2 good guy friends. B & J.
You have heard a lot about B. We are very close.
J is also a good friend. I see him only as a friend. Others indicate that he would like more. But he has never expressed this to me.
B & J are good friends.
J, to my knowledge, does not know about the complicated past, present and future with B.
I also know a lot about his past relationships, views on relationships etc. It's a solid friendship.
But am I wrong that he is often the one that I go to when I need something?
I jokingly asked him to help me move into my house and he did.
If I need a ride home, he takes me.
I needed a bowling partner for an upcoming charity fundraiser, he is my partner.
I was testing a new app on my iPhone that allows you to play music on a jukebox without leaving your spot in the bar, or in my case, my home - he helped me test. I had asked B first but he wasn't there. When I told him the test was complete he said - let me guess who you asked...
So my question is...knowing he would like more, am I taking advantage by asking him for these things? Or am I being a total girl and over thinking because age old wisdom says guys and girls can't be friends?