I believe that I have finally accepted the end of my marriage; partly due to my fabulous 4th of July weekend and partly because I have realized that my feelings just truly don't matter to MS2BX.
So now I wonder; when is it appropriate to move on? How do you know? Obviously my husband (and Jon Gosselin) thought it was appropriate to do so before even letting me know we were in trouble...
But when will I be ready? How will I know?
if you are asking yourself then you aren't ready. when it is time, you will know. keep healing...and it will happen.
ReplyDeleteI completely agree with Kay. If you force yourself to "be ready" then it will end badly. Just keep doing what you're doing - healing, having "me" time, hanging out with friends, and learning to love yourself
ReplyDeleteYou'll know, it will feel right, natural and lovely. And it's is totally cool if that doesn't happen for some time.
ReplyDeleteI think it is true that you will know, and I think asking yourself the question means you are getting there. You may at one point think you are ready, jump into dating and then find out you aren't as ready as you thought, just remember thats ok too, its ok to step back and breathe.
ReplyDeletei would say you are on your way, everyone heals differently
ReplyDeleteYou'll just know when it's time, just like you knew that you accepted the end of the marriage. It just happens but takes time.
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