- Don't Give a Damn. Uh...I have this mastered. In fact, my friends say this makes me unapproachable but JT says desirable...
- Tell an X-rated joke. I've got this mastered and the dirty mouth to boot. I consider this a personal weakness but again...if JT loves it...
- Know your style. In my late 20's and now early 30's I think I am finally finding my way with this one. I am not a fashionista but you won't find me on a worst dressed list either.
- Try Anything Once. Aside from certain foods - game on.
- Let Him Do All The Work. As much as I enjoy taking control I love it more when its the guy who knows what he wants and goes for it.
- Own Your Emotions. Ha. Check.
- Be a Babe Among Boys. I am a guys girl personified.
- Call Him Out. Again, check.
If the above is what JT wants anybody want to hook me up?
But maybe what I should be asking is -
If the above is true...why do I have zero luck in the dating world?
Hmmmm, I may have to disagree with JT and agree with your friend: all but the most secure of men might feel threatened by all the above. It has been my unfortunate experience, that many of the men I know WANT to rescue helpless, codependent woman who are clearly insecure. But you don't want those men anyway (obviously.) I honestly think that it's hard when you are waiting for men of quality. It's easy to be in a relationship, it's just not easy to be in a GOOD one.
ReplyDeleteI get what JT is saying but I can't say that's always the case. My dirty potty mouth has turned off many a men. And I'm still working on the style thing. Can I just chaperone your date?
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